Faith, Fears & Attitude

By: Stellaghenie 

Its a matter of choice, not circumstances, how they deal with a specific situation. Our attitude can influence our faith. Its up to us to influence our decisions today, to make a future were dreaming about. Our attitude can change everything. You don't necessarily must be the best, but they can make our thinking run in a positive way, to make negative thoughts disappear. You can face anything in this world, in the event you have a will, strong to make you go ahead. All of us live in a vicious cycle, but what matters the most is to be able to manage every day something that will add perspectives to our future. You can now take your personal road feasible for your dream achieving, or in the event you are not prepared yet to make this step, you need to go through some points, that I will count in a few steps:

    1. MOTIVATION

People always needed motivation to face the reality, motivation to move ahead, motivation to overcome challenges, motivation necessary to bring you to success. Motivation makes us handle all the fears , lift your head up & move to your goals. Motivation was always needed when people had a difficult situation in their life, & the influence of the third person was to make him deal along with his fears, to find the strength in you, to reach your limits. Motivation makes people be determined, makes them make decisions. But, still  you don't must get stocked in the trap of motivation. Sometimes you need to forget about it, & do it, because some people might use it as an excuse, not to go on. Some people think, I don't have motivation to work. That is an excuse that keeps you where you are. When you start doing the thing, that is when the motivation comes.

    2. TRUST

Trust has always been a skill that people needed to move forward. You need to be 100% positive, or need it a lot, to find the trust in you. Some people think their surroundings does not fit their attitude and objective construction. They always query themselves  what if? For this you need trust -- The trust that it is possible for you to to overcome all the challenges, the trust that you will learn and improve yourself, the trust that you can do it. Then you can look at your life from different views. Who is going to be next to you on the trip to success? -- Of work, your relatives. Relatives can always be the trust that you need, and the motivation to show yourself that this method of achieving is not long-term.

    3. FOCUS

Concentrate yourself on the things you need to do, than alarming situations. That is why I keep telling you about the priority list you need to make, to get rid of urgency. After you will get clear together with your alarming situations, you can think & focus your attention & attitude on your aim reaching. Keep in mind, that success is a journey, not a location. All you need is a dream & a date, & focusing on these things make life simpler for you. You must build trust & focus on it, with the help of your competence, & character. You will need to show yourself that you can be an example for your relatives, first and then for the others. You need to take things seriously, & in the event you decided you are prepared to move ahead, focus yourself & your attitude to do it!

    4. ATTITUDE

Attitude Is everything. This is one of the main principles for personal grow, and achievement. You have to have the right attitude to lead yourself well, to self-manage your emotions, your priorities, you positive thinking, your time, and your personal grow, by living this experience. You have to know how to treat yourself, to achieve the maximum potential. The attitude to stay away from different circumstances and challenges is the best way what to start with. People who had disabilities, have had the right attitude and this brought them to success. People had no arms and legs, but they found their talents, and with the right attitude they did it. What excuse do you have to stop in front of the challenges, and complicate yourself, when things are in fact, so simple.

    5. RESULTS

To have results, you need to follow all those 4 steps written above, but adding to them daily impact. Let’s say – how would it be like, if you wake up in the morning, and first what you see is your dream book. Give yourself this question? – What do I have to focus on today, to make it come true? What are you going to be tomorrow, you are becoming today. Things that you do day by day, make your future. The decisions you take today, will influence they day you live tomorrow. What you live today, is the result of the decision taken in the past. Doing the right thing daily, will influence on your future, and, depending on your dream size, in 5 to ten years, you will become what you always wanted to. The power Is in your hands, nobody has the right to take the decision instead of you. You can take your life in your hands, and decide for once, that you deserve to live the way you want to live.

I will show you next a video, that inspired me so much – the video that can make people sit down on their knees, to be thankful to God, that they have arms, and legs, that they have a family, that they are healthy, that they have the decision in their hands. You just need to start with the first point, and finish with the result, not only in your mind, but the result come true!

Too Much of School

When my mom finally decided to take that plum posting as a Divisional
Head, I knew I was in trouble. Her office hours stretched way beyond my
school hours. & anyway, I was privy to the plenty of discussions my parents
had about 'Honey, what do they do with the children?' Well, finally they struck
gold - an educational after school program. Won't that be grand? Children
are learning new things while parents are happily minting greenbacks!

& so, they went directly to another class after our school. The brochure
said that they would be 'using fun activities & innovative teaching
methods to fill the gap in your kid's understanding'. I suppose they
meant that the teacher would write down the home-work & they were to copy
it. At least, this is what happened most of the time. Of work, they didn't
tell our parents. How would that help? They'd basically get smart & shift us to a class that would actually make us solve our home-work.

I detested the classes. Mostly, I was bored to tears or falling asleep.
After so plenty of hours at school who'd require to spend the whole afternoon
with the same books? But, as a child, had small choice in these
matters. when one's parents were cleverly telling that
mommy's wage will help get us that spanking new TV or that video game.
Lose some, win some!

Now, so plenty of years afterward, when I need to take up a job & leave my
own child alone till I get back, I do know how important these after school
programs have become. Discuss history repeating itself! I hope I'd
get her in to a nice, & yes, it is going to be educational .

Then, day, my sister decided to rock the proverbial boat. He decided
he had of studying & refused to go to the after school program.
That is when my parents began to smell something stale. Soon after that,
they put us in a better program (o, yes, another educational). This
was bigger, brighter & somehow more fun. They had some fascinating games,
& a COMPUTER . Each of us got a chance to do something on the PC
(this, when PCs were beginning to make their presence felt). They
somehow managed to blaze through our home-work, most of which had to be
completed by us. Then it was time to have fun. They had a small little bit of
everything. Acting classes, speech, games & naturally painting. Those
hours they spent splashing color on pages & laughing at foolish jokes were
 the highlight of an otherwise boring day. Ironically, I started
looking forward to my after school program.

The Learning Surroundings

There is often a trap in the words 'after school activities'. may
basically think that since these activities are after school, they are not
of much importance. But, could not be more wrong. Research suggests
that kids pick up a quantity of their most important skills from after
school programs. That is why kids who do not participate in any additional
curricular activities are usually slow and less vibrant.

Kids look for different things in an after class program. The learning
surroundings ought to be stunning, colorful and informative. Use charts,
pics, posters and drawings to liven up a class. Additional resources
(resources that are not basically obtainable in the school) will make the
classes fascinating. For example, when teaching a biology lesson, permit
the kid to see through a microscope or see slides of bacteria. This
will add to his knowledge and also make him more enthusiastic about his after school program.

The learning surroundings that fosters in after school activities must
be as disciplined and as functional as that present in the school. This is
 true of educational after school programs. This is the best
place to teach the kid important skills like time-management and objective
setting. Time-management is a vital skill, but it is not achieved basically.
Kids need to feel the discipline that is necessary to finish a task and
the happiness of finishing the allotted work in a specific timeframe.

Rewards are an important part of any learning process. The reward can be a
simple pat on the back or a token of appreciation. Motivate your kids
to aspire for higher things by rewarding their achievements. Holding
competitions or sport activities where the kids can show their
proficiency is a reward in itself.

Discipline is a must in after school activities. In fun or sport-based
activities, it is simple for kids to step out of line and wreck havoc.
While kids ought to be allowed to have fun, they ought to be curtailed
from unacceptable behavior. The best way to enforce discipline is to lay
down the rules at the outset. Let the kids know what is
unacceptable, right at the beginning.

Kids can get bored basically, in the case of an educational
program. The main thrust of an academic program is to repeat what has been
taught in class and to permit the kid to learn it quickly. It is
difficult to pique the kid's interest a second time, when the
kid is already worn out of dose of the same lesson. It is best to
thwart boredom by using creative techniques like an unrehearsed extempore on
any topic, a quiz program or a slideshow.

After school activities are rising in popularity by the day. Parents need
their children to learn more. Kids have an insatiable quest for
knowledge. In an after school program, it is feasible to pay individual
attention and quench this thirst using various effective techniques.